I've been dating my girl for almost 5 years now. Sex was awesome first couple of years but started to go down hill from there. We use to have sex almost 3-5 times a week, now I'm lucky to have sex 1-2 times a year! She has been on the pill ever since we've met, but she has switched pill brands 2x because of the side effects(loss of sex drive,headaches,mood swings). I've sat down with her many times and expressed my sexual needs and that I'm worried that she mite not find me attractive anymore. She reassured me that its not me, but her stresses in her life plus pill side effects messing with her hormones.
I've been waiting years to see a change in her sex drive, but i haven't seen anything close to what it use to be. Its a drag for her to even want to make out with me, let alone let me pleasure her with foreplay. I know there is probably nothing she can do about it, but it sure does stress me out as well.
She gives me oral a lot because she knows when I'm horny i won't stop trying to show affection to her and probably doesn't want me to cheat on her . I let her know how much i find her attractive and beautiful, i always compliment her about her boosums and butt But always receiving pleasure isn't that satisfiying to me... I want us to both experience great pleasure like we use to.
I hope someone can find insight on this, because i sure as hell can't make sense of it. I'm just crossing my fingers and hoping one day she will undress me with her eyes once again :-0)
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