What people dont realize is that typically the problem they are experiencing is actually an effect from another cause. Your GF not being being ready to go isnt because of your looks or the time you are asking to be with her. Its a much deeper underlining issue.
You have to understand for women, sex is more than the physical release and enjoyment. Its a very intimate thing. Sure, you have the various sluts that look for it but for most women in an actual relationship, its about the connection.
If she is being distant or not interested, odds are your communication has suffered for quite some time now. When a woman feels like she isnt being cared for or respected or wanted for anything more than sex, she tends to withdraw. A woman that is comfortable in the relationship and exhibiting positive vibes 9 times out of 10 will want to have sex standing on her head at 4 am. Its just a way to show that connection and intimacy.
You are taking this as a personal insult and its not. Learn to deal with this because this is the way EVERY SINGLE woman you will be in a relationship with will be from time to time. Take the time and talk to her. Bring her flowers. Take her out and laugh with her. Bridge the gap you two have and the intimacy will come right back.
Trust me on this one.
You have to understand for women, sex is more than the physical release and enjoyment. Its a very intimate thing. Sure, you have the various sluts that look for it but for most women in an actual relationship, its about the connection.
If she is being distant or not interested, odds are your communication has suffered for quite some time now. When a woman feels like she isnt being cared for or respected or wanted for anything more than sex, she tends to withdraw. A woman that is comfortable in the relationship and exhibiting positive vibes 9 times out of 10 will want to have sex standing on her head at 4 am. Its just a way to show that connection and intimacy.
You are taking this as a personal insult and its not. Learn to deal with this because this is the way EVERY SINGLE woman you will be in a relationship with will be from time to time. Take the time and talk to her. Bring her flowers. Take her out and laugh with her. Bridge the gap you two have and the intimacy will come right back.
Trust me on this one.
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