Dr. Lana Holstein says most couples do need a sexual tune-up. Many times "it just fades a little bit — they're paying attention to their finances or to their kids — but they forget that they could pay attention to their sexual connection. "
She says although many people believe in "spontaneity," couples should really treat sex and relationships like a business. "I call it 'The Good Sex Division.' It needs everything a new division of the company would need." Couples should set a mission statement that includes goals, capital — a statement of a perfect sex life.
Dr. Holstein also recommends setting a regular time for sex. "It's the only way. Our lives are so busy — you won't get to it often." For a deep, soulful connection, Dr. Holstein suggests the woman sit on the man's lap, face-to-face, and gaze into each others eyes. "When you sit together, you hold hands, you look into one another's eyes, you remind yourself, 'Why am I with this person?' All of a sudden it starts to change."
She says although many people believe in "spontaneity," couples should really treat sex and relationships like a business. "I call it 'The Good Sex Division.' It needs everything a new division of the company would need." Couples should set a mission statement that includes goals, capital — a statement of a perfect sex life.
Dr. Holstein also recommends setting a regular time for sex. "It's the only way. Our lives are so busy — you won't get to it often." For a deep, soulful connection, Dr. Holstein suggests the woman sit on the man's lap, face-to-face, and gaze into each others eyes. "When you sit together, you hold hands, you look into one another's eyes, you remind yourself, 'Why am I with this person?' All of a sudden it starts to change."
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